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A self- love letter to you, from you


Hello sunshine,

How are you doing?

Hope everything is fine in your life (and mind too).

I see, everyone is talking about #mentalhealth these days. Are you one of them?

Or are you one of those people who want people to talk to them, whenever in need?

Today, I want to share a little something with you Sunshine, ready to listen?

There are many people out there who want to have a companion in life, not because they really want a partner or because of the society but, only because they want people to be by their side whenever they feel low in life or whenever life gets way too overwhelming for them.

And, it is perfectly fine to feel overwhelmed sometimes. If you have a partner (they can be your love partner or a friend or a family member too) to talk to, then you are the lucky one.

Even if you do not have one, it is perfectly fine, you can do one thing, just write all the negative emotions or feelings in your diary (or journal) and then try changing them to affirmations, it will surely look like a hectic task in the beginning but, you need to start from somewhere right? You don’t need to be stuck all the time, do you?

Start your day by some ‘me- time’ for just an hour, is it too much to ask for? From your own life?

Reading something or listen to a podcast or just meditate, it will definitely help in you being a happy and positive person.

Your mind does all the working, if you think about winning a game all the time and put your best efforts in it, then no one can stop you.

If you think that you are a failure in life then no matter how much you think about become a successful person, you will fail.

Positive affirmations and positive thinking can help become a better person.

I am not saying because I have read it somewhere or someone told me this, I am very much capable of saying this because I have been through dealing with emotional breakdown, anxiety attacks, not having people around when I needed them the most yes, I have been through all of it, and I still sometime experience things what I went through in the past but, your past cannot define your future, right?

You can still be someone better, only if you set your heart, mind, soul and body to it.

People can write so many books about self- love, happiness and positivity but implementing it in life is a task for people, once you achieve everything, it changes your life forever, you start seeing good in the bad, happiness in the sadness, positive in the negatives which ultimately makes us a calm and a better person in life.

 I really hope you are ready to become a better person in life, Sunshine.


Until next time,

With loads and loads of love,

Yours Self


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